Welcome back to White Rose of Avalon my Darlings!   For this week’s Femme Fatale Friday, I have decided to write about my favorite character from my all-time favorite television series, Phoebe Halliwell.   Phoebe is introduced in the pilot episode of Charmed “Something Wicca This Way Comes” as the youngest of the trio of Halliwell sisters.   It is Phoebe’s return home to San Francisco from her time spent in New York City that reunited the sisters to receive their magic and begin their destiny.   In fact, it is Phoebe who read the incantation that allowed them to receive their powers in the first place!

In the very beginning, Phoebe is shown as the fun-loving and free-spirited youngest sister whom eldest sister Prue views as having “no vision of the future.”   This becomes ironic from the first episode onward, as she is the sister with the gift of premonition, literally gifted to see the future events in order to help save innocents from demons!    As the series progressed, Phoebe grows in maturity, in season 2 she goes back to college showing her desire to gain knowledge and respect from others and to more deeply respect herself.   In season 3, Phoebe truly falls in love for the first time in the series, although we did meet her ex, Clay, with whom she ended up briefly reuniting in season 1.   There is also the Cupid episode of season 2 that spoke of her being closed off from finding love, which she is able to overcome especially after the episode “Chick Flick” finding the connection to the character from her favorite movie that had been her childhood crush.   But the first real love story for Phoebe began with meeting Cole Turner.   At the time, she believed him to be just a human district attorney with whom she felt a connection.

Phoebe and Cole began dating, with Cole choosing the youngest sister as the easiest way to try to kill the Charmed ones, as he was truly the demon Belthazor.   However, it is not long before he genuinely fell in love with Phoebe, and their love story is the best one in the whole series, in my very biased opinion!   I have even written two whole blog posts about their romance.   Phoebe’s love prevents her from vanquishing him, even though she told her sisters that she had.   Eventually, this lie came to light, and Phoebe and Cole were able to reconcile!   Cole is there by her side at Piper and Leo’s wedding, risked his own safety to go undercover with a group of demons he used to belong to (and gets separated from Phoebe in the process), and helped her grieve the loss of Prue.    It is around this same time that Phoebe graduated college with her degree Bachelors in Psychology.   It is also just after Prue’s death that Piper and Phoebe learn that they had a half-sister named Paige!   

The Charmed Ones were reborn and Phoebe went from being the youngest sister to the middle sister, being a balance point between Piper and Paige.   It is during this time that Phoebe is yearning to find employment, but is not yet able to do so, as she is the full-time witch amongst the sisters.   She is also proposed to by Cole but fears that she is not the marrying type, also fearing the next step of real maturity.   However, she eventually accepted his proposal after he was turned human by her power-stripping potion, and the course of events led to him almost dying, as she realized that she never wanted to live without him!   When the sisters finally vanquish the Source of All Evil, his power is not truly ended, but instead, the Source’s magic resided in Cole’s body.   This is hidden from Phoebe as Cole tried to fight the Source, eventually succumbing.   They do marry and Phoebe does get pregnant with his son, not knowing the truth of her husband’s nature.   She does find out the truth after learning that she is pregnant and chose Cole and her child over her sisters!   This is one of Phoebe’s most potent story arcs, even though it only lasts a couple of episodes.   She was so in love with Cole that she was willing to become Queen of the Underworld and abandon her family.   Part of this was because of the Source’s baby influencing her from inside, of course.   However, there is also something to be said about just how strong Phoebe’s feelings had to be for her to be put in that position, given she overcame her doubts and even her future self told her to marry him before the wedding when she cast a spell to decide if she was making the right decision!    Phoebe had to ultimately vanquish the love of her life after she reunited with her sisters.   Not long after this, the Seer took her baby, and she learned that the child she had been carrying was actually the Source’s and the Seer’s, not her’s and Cole’s.    She ends out the fourth season by finding out that Cole was in the demonic wasteland, but not being able to help him.      

By the season 5 premiere, Phoebe is in workaholic mode, with the job as an advice columnist that she had gotten in season 4 really taking off.   She also had found time to try and push her divorce to Cole through, as he had been reported missing (with them being unable to admit he was the Source and had been vanquished, obviously).   It is at this time that Cole reappeared, having gotten out of the demonic wasteland by gaining powers, ones that proved to make him invincible!   Now, Phoebe’s story arc in seasons 5 and 6 is often derided as her being very selfish.   While I agree, she did become selfish, especially in season 6, I do not think it is entirely fair to make her out to be a horrible character because she rejects Cole so vehemently in season 5.    Even as a massive lover of Phoebe and Cole, wishing they ended up together, I know that they could not have simply reconciled as soon as he came back.   Phoebe was incredibly traumatized from her time as the Queen of the Underworld, losing her husband, losing her unborn child, and losing herself!   It is this trauma that would lead her to become a workaholic to avoid dealing with it and it is also this trauma that would explain her behavior towards Wyatt when he is born.    

Phoebe spent much of the early part of season 5 obsessed with getting rid of Cole, but she was not even the one truly there to vanquish him for good, as only Paige was.   When Paige was pulled into the alternate reality Cole created with the Avatars, she was able to vanquish Cole who was still Belthazor in that reality with the alternate reality’s versions of Phoebe and Piper!   After this, Phoebe still did not feel true relief because she had not dealt with the trauma, and when Wyatt is born she becomes obsessed with watching him sleep and spending time with him.   This goes beyond being a proud aunt, as it is a reflection of a woman who is still in pain over the loss of her own child before he was born!    While the show played it mostly as a cute or silly quirk, I can see the true gravitas is there just beneath the surface.   I had to mention this because I do not think enough people discuss the reasoning behind Phoebe’s behavior at this point in the series!    

By season 6, Phoebe is in a complicated sort of on-and-off relationship with her globetrotting boss, Jason.  It is also when she received the gift of empathy as another power to go with her premonition and levitation abilities.   Each of the sisters is trying to focus on their own lives for much of this season.   Phoebe is very wrapped up in her work and even moves to Hong Kong with Jason, with Piper’s and Paige’s blessings.   It is later in the season that Phoebe begins to mature once again, she finds out that Chris is Piper and Leo’s son from the future and seeks to help him make sure he is born.   She also begins to focus on her own desire to have children, after seeing a vision of herself pregnant during the vision quest she took at Magic School in “The Legend of Sleepy Halliwell.”   However, this too becomes an obsession, leading her to misuse her powers and have them taken away.   She must prove herself deserving of her gifts in order to get them back, which she slowly does, at least for some of her powers.

In season 7, Phoebe is on the road to learning how to balance her work life with her personal needs and desires.    She even takes a sabbatical at the beginning of the season, which shows great growth for someone who knows they need a rest.   Even if she does not trust her ghostwriter at first, and then ends up having a short relationship with him.    Her biggest growth point of season 7 is learning not to give up on love, which she was very ready to do after the Avatars had changed the world and then changed it back again.   She was very impacted by seeing Paige so hurting over Kyle and what Piper and Leo were going through.   Meeting and falling for Drake, who was an ex-demon doomed to die in just a few weeks helped reaffirm her faith in love, along with seeing Piper and Leo reunite.    It turns out that all of this was organized by Cole in his Netherrealm purgatory where he was trapped.   He helped Drake get his taste of humanity and sent him Phoebe’s way, as well as orchestrated Piper and Leo reuniting in order to make sure that Phoebe did not give up on love!    This is part of why I always say that they were the best couple on this show!

After defeating Zankou at the end of season 7, the sisters faked their own deaths, but that did not last, as they realized that normal life was not for them.   It was Phoebe who most pushed them to try and embrace this new normal life, which shows just how drained she was from all of the traumas the magical world had brought into her life!    After all, Phoebe had usually been the sister who most enjoyed their magical legacy, finding true growth and personal fulfillment in helping innocents!   Billie is taken under their wing as a young witch in training, but Phoebe is the one who takes on the majority of the mentorship there, helping her further remember how important magic is to her once again.    After a rough start with an impromptu wedding to a man she barely knew, due to a spell gone awry, Phoebe leaned into being a guide to Billie in her magical journey.   With the help of the feds, they were able to come back.   As the final season progressed, Billie found her sister and was swayed to the dark side for a time, but ultimately came back to the Halliwell’s side, even shown in flashforwards in the finale to be trusted to care for Phoebe’s young daughters when she is going to give birth to her third child.   The series chose to rush a love story for Phoebe in season 8, just as they had for Paige and her husband Henry.    At the end of the season, Phoebe is sent Coop, a cupid who is meant to help her find love, but whom she fell in love with.   In the series finale, they realize that their love was never forbidden, as they had thought, the Elders sent him to her hoping they would fall in love.   That is romantic but very rushed, and I never thought she and Coop had the staying power she and Cole could have had, but at least she ended the series happy and being the mom she wanted to be! 

At the end of the day, Phoebe is probably the sister with the greatest character development in the series.   Her actions make sense, even if she is being selfish or unlikable at times.   I have always had the utmost empathy for her story and I certainly related to her the most.   I hope you have enjoyed this very long analysis of the character of Phoebe Halliwell.   It honestly ended up being much longer than intended, but I just had so much to say!    Who is your favorite Charmed character?  Let me know your thoughts in the comment below!

Note on Image: The image at the top of the post is a picture of Phoebe and the Book of Shadows.   I found the image on https://www.writeups.org/charmed-alyssa-milano-phoebe-halliwell/.

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Further Watching

• Charmed (2006)